Thursday, January 1, 2015

The Fall Guy

(From the Janesville Messenger, 12-7-2014)


I'm not what you would call graceful.

My history includes many episodes that range from awkward to downright clumsy. A classmate once described me as being “as coordinated as a cow on stilts.” But the defining moment of my school career occurred during a junior high basketball game when, after attempting a layup, a laughing teammate declared that I looked like a flying camel.

And lo, unto me a nickname was born. To this day, former school friends – as well as their parents – still refer to me as Camel.

On one recent morning, it was hard to tell whether I resembled a camel, cow, Bambi, or some other odd animal as I lay sprawled upon my icy driveway, howling in pain. Venturing out in a bathrobe and flip-flops to get the morning newspaper, the freezing rain claimed another victim, a cruel reminder that Mother Nature takes no prisoners during Wisconsin winters.

In pursuit of the day's headlines, I instead acquired a headline of my own, a Harry Potter-like laceration above my right eyebrow. When I went down, my forehead struck the corner of a stone wall, almost immediately inflating a bulge that looked and felt like a baseball growing out of my face.

After the ice melted on the roads - and in the pack on my forehead - we made the obligatory trip down to urgent care, where x-rays of my head showed nothing (apologies to Yogi Berra). The medical staff were all very nice and sympathetic, never once blurting out “You idiot! What were you doing out on the ice?”

Of course, when you visit the doctor, you get asked to rate your pain on the 0 to 10 scale, with 0 being no pain and 10 being worst possible. There is a chart on the wall to assist you in your pain estimate, with helpful facial expressions next to each number. For example, 0 is a big smile and 10 is a huge frown with tears. With each number up the scale, the center of the eyebrows moves upward, the smile straightens and then turns downward, the eyes look sadder and finally cry. Even with that as a guide, I never know what to say. It would be easier to self-assess with real world examples; say, a paper cut is a 2 and having your leg gnawed off by a tiger is a 10.

I was also brutally honest with the doctor examining me. When she asked how I was feeling, I simply replied, “stupid.” No other answer (“OK,” “Fine,” “Not so good,” etc.) seemed appropriate.

Fortunately, no stitches were required on the cut; instead, it was held together with a big glob of glue. It was like being in second grade art class all over again.

A knock to the noggin is the gift that keeps on giving. Three days later, swollen purple sacks formed in the corners of both eyes. Within a day or so, I sported two shiners straight out of a Rocky Balboa film.

Trying to hide facial injuries is an art. The head wound was camouflaged by parting my hair to the other side. With the black eyes, contact lenses were eschewed in favor of dark-rimmed glasses. The restyled coiffure just felt weird, though, so it didn't last long. There are worse things in the world than displaying a big purple splotch on one's forehead. Heck, it didn't stop Mikhail Gorbachev.

It is also an art to avoid staring at someone's injury. The wound on my head is just so darned interesting to folks. It is hard to avoid laughing when seeing people's eyes dart from my forehead to my eyes and back. At least they can look straight into my eyes to appreciate the shiners.

I guess I should have listened to the advice I dispensed from the theatrical stage two years ago, as I sang the line, “When on thin ice, please watch your step.” The musical? Of course....“Guys On Ice.”



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